Solid state relay for Router with "softstart"

Hi

I hope this isn't off topic. I just bought a new router that
has "softstart" My relay that opperates it is a solid state relay
rated at 25amps 24-330 volts AC The relay will not work now with the
new router. It works fine with my other router that doesn't
have "softstart" I relize the softstart is the problem and if I plug
something else into the outlet then it starts fine.. I suppose I
could just buy a new relay but am wonder if there is a way to get
this relay to work with the "softstart" router... Maybe a resistor?

Thanks

Jeff Tice